Friday, December 9, 2011

"Books for the armchair traveler" from CNN.com

5 books for the armchair traveler

From Oprah.com
updated 2:55 PM EST, Fri December 9, 2011
You don't have to know Mandarin to be captivated by Deborah Fallow's Memoir

(Oprah.com) -- Dreaming in Chinese: Mandarin Lessons in Life, Love, and Language
By Deborah Fallows
You don't have to know Mandarin to be captivated by "Dreaming in Chinese," Fallows' memoir of living in Shanghai and Beijing and learning the language. A journalist with a PhD in linguistics, Fallows wears her erudition lightly as she meets locals and tries to unravel the mysteries of their mother tongue. Why is it, for example, that a tableful of Chinese diners might seem to be barking orders at each other? Because they believe using "polite" terms (please; thank you; would you mind...) creates distance, and that direct language is more appropriate for intimates. Forget Berlitz -- that just teaches words. Deborah Fallows shows us that the cultural implications of those words teach us about each other.
Oprah.com: Riveting reads: The best fiction of 2011
Cleopatra: A Life
By Stacy Schiff
Mention Cleopatra and you probably think of Elizabeth Taylor batting her violet eyes at Richard Burton. Or maybe Shakespeare's temptress fooling around with Julius Caesar and dying for love of Mark Antony. But it turns out we have seriously underestimated the last Egyptian queen. In her provocative new biography, "Cleopatra: A Life", Pulitzer Prize winner Stacy Schiff makes the case that the richest and most powerful woman of all time was less "wanton temptress" than savvy politician. -- Liza Nelson
Oprah.com: 7 Standout Books of 2011
Life of Pi
By Yann Martel
"God was going to love him, no matter what he had to do to survive. He was on the trip with him," says actress Andie MacDowell of Martel's popular fable about a 16-year-old boy's harrowing journey on a lifeboat with a 450-pound tiger. "This book makes you wonder: Has Pi actually been on a fantastic adventure, or is the truth far more realistic?... My older sister wanted to believe the fantasy. I was kind of surprised by that, because she's so doggone bright. For me, there was no way the story could be real. It had to be a way to deal with something that was impossible to deal with. That's what this book does: It tells a painful story as a fantasy because the reality is too brutal."
Oprah.com: 8 great adventure reads
Eat, Pray, Love
by Elizabeth Gilbert
After the end of her seven-year marriage, Elizabeth Gilbert embarked on a journey of self-discovery that changed her entire life. Luckily for us, she captured this whirlwind adventure through Italy, India and Bali in her best-selling hit, "Eat, Pray, Love." You may be inspired to do an internet search for Bali or your nearest ashram, but we dare you to read about the food she discovers during her time in Rome and not book your own trip to Italy on the spot.
Oprah.com: The best nonfiction of 2011

from http://www.cnn.com/2011/12/09/living/books-for-the-armchair-traveler-o/index.html

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Dreaming in Chinese now in Paperback

Yay! From today's New York Times Sunday Book Review:

Paperback Row, by Ihsan Taylor

DREAMING IN CHINESE: Mandarin Lessons in Life, Love, and Language, by Deborah Fallows (Walker, $13.) Based on Fallows’s three-year sojourn in China, her insightful chronicle of learning Mandarin uses key phrases and concepts to unlock aspects of society, casting light along the way on many idiosyncrasies of the Chinese view of the world.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

If you're in Cincinnati October 27

Does China Exist?

Oct. 27, 7:30 p.m.
The James and Caroline Duff Banquet Center
in the Cintas Center
Xavier University
Cincinnati
Free and open to the public.
For more information, please
call 513-745-3922.


http://www.xavier.edu/dialogue/documents/fallows.pdf

China is in increasing competition with America for jobs,
markets, military strength and diplomatic influence. It
also controls a large share of America’s debt. How should
Americans think about the country that will play an
important part in our future? Which of China’s strengths—
and weaknesses—go unnoticed here? james and deborah
fallows provide answers in “Does China Exist?”
James Fallows, a correspondent for The Atlantic and former
presidential speechwriter, has reported internationally for
nearly 30 years, including three recent years in China with
his wife, Deborah, a linguist and author, who has written for
National Geographic, The Atlantic and other publications.
James’ books include Postcards from Tomorrow Square:
Reports from China. Deborah’s latest book is Dreaming in
Chinese: Mandarin Lessons in Life, Love, and Language.
join us

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

If you're in Chicago on October 13 - 14

TEDxMidwest: Thursday Oct 13 Friday Oct 14 

The Oriental Theatre (Formerly  The Ford Theater)
24 W. Randolph St.
Chicago, IL 60601


Deb Fallows


Linguist and Author, "The Linguistic Genius of Adults"

Linguist and author Deborah Fallows recently lived in China for three years. She has a PhD in linguistics; has worked for the Pew Internet Project, Oxygen Media, and Georgetown University; and has written for many national publications. Her new book is Dreaming in Chinese: Mandarin Lessons in Life, Love, and Language.



Saturday, October 8, 2011

If you're in Oklahoma early this week...

 UNIVERSITY OF OKLAHOMA

 
Monday October 10, 7 - 9 PM.
Jenks East Intermediate Gym
3933 E. 81st. St., Tulsa OK

Tuesday, October 11, 7 - 9 PM.
Kerr Auditorium
Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History
2401 Chautauqua Ave., Norman, OK

Sponsored by STARTALK and the University of Oklahoma East Asia Institute and the University of Oklahoma Confucius Institute, in partnership with Jenks Sino-Trojan Academy.

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

If you're in Honolulu this week (or wish you were..)

                                                     Confucius Day 2011
             two talks by me, accompanied by my book, Dreaming in Chinese

Date: Tuesday, September 27
Time: 12:30pm
Place: Tokioka Room (Moore Hall 319)
Title: “Chinglish: the Language between Chinese
and English. The linguistics of how we
understand Chinglish & why it makes us laugh.”

Abstract: Chinglish always hits our funnybones, but
we rarely take time to sort out why. We always understand
Chinglish; we get what it intends, even when
it says something quite literally different. How do we
do this? How does our cultural experience provide
the context for guessing the meaning of what makes
no sense at all?

Date: Wednesday, September 28
Time: 5:00pm (followed by a reception & book signing)
Place: Art Auditorium
Title: “Think Like the Chinese Think:
Understanding the Culture of Modern China
Through the Lens of Language”

Abstract: Using her experience as a trained linguist
and a new student of Chinese, Deborah Fallows shows
how simple words, phrases, or bits of the grammar of
the Chinese language can become windows to understanding
much of the Chinese culture—their sense
of romance, humor, protocol, personal relationships,
and interest in foreigners, to name a
few. Why, for example, does abrupt
language in Chinese actually signal a
closeness between friends, rather than
impolite behavior? Or why do the Chinese
have such trouble saying “I love
you” to the ones they love the most. Fallows
provides a necessary human perspective
on an emerging superpower
that many in the West still struggle to
comprehend.
Co-sponsor: University of
Hawai‘i Bookstore
Admission is free.

Friday, August 19, 2011

America: The View from 2,500 Feet

From the window of a small plane, the country is a living Norman Rockwell painting

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From the time my husband was a boy, he dreamed of learning to fly planes. He finally indulged his passion some 13 years ago, when the moratorium we agreed upon early in our marriage of "not until the kids are grown" ran out. The day our youngest got his college acceptance, my husband announced, "I think I'll head out to Gaithersburg to take a few flying lessons." We bought a single engine, four-seater plane in 2000, sold it when we moved to China to live for 3 years, then traded up to another used 2006 model on our return about a year ago. This plane, a Cirrus SR22, has won its place in my heart for the parachute that is built into the top of the fuselage. Even I, who usually ride shotgun, know how to deploy the chute in an emergency, one that might for example disable the pilot or the plane. I always sleep like a baby the nights before we fly, reassured by the fact of the parachute. Remember those little balsa wood toy planes with the parachute that gently and evenly lowers the whole plane if you drop it? That's the general idea of how it works on our plane.
capn-jim2.jpgOwning a plane is about the last thing I ever dreamed of doing, but I appreciate it now for its functionality (visit the grown kids at a moment's notice) and even more for the pleasure as well as the complete disengagement from everyday pressures that it brings to my husband. He's a natural flyboy.
It is hard to justify this plane economically, except if you start calculating the best-case formula for a trip that includes maximum number of "souls on board" (a term used in filing flight plans that always make me pause for a moment), price of last minute commercial air tickets, or driving time. Here's how a scenario like this works: four of us fly from Washington, DC, to Maine and back, costing about $500 in fuel (which is about $1.50 more per gallon than gasoline), taking about two and a half hours. Sometimes the flight is wonderfully efficient, like flying from Washington, DC, to the tip of Long Island, which would take God knows how many hours of driving. More often, it makes no sense at all, except for fun and mental health.
We have taken lots of flights by now, including a three-day cross country trip from our then-home in Berkeley to Boston, where we were delivering an offspring to college one year. We have flown to the Oshkosh Air Show, which is the Holy Grail of flyers' destinations (think Woodstock for 1960s hippies). We have also taken a number of milk runs to nearby beautiful places, like our recent trip to Portland, Maine.
Heading for Portland, the first interesting views over the Washington, DC, area look down on the Amish country of southeast Pennsylvania. If we fly especially low, say about 2500 feet, I can pick out horse-drawn buggies on the roads. Going north, Pennsylvania always surprises me for its reminders of the infrastructure that keeps our country organized and running: rock quarry after quarry, distribution centers thick with orderly swarms of containers backed up to warehouse loading docks, neatly laid out schools looking rich and privileged with football fields and baseball diamonds, nuclear plant towers spewing white plumes of vapor, shopping malls with outsized parking lots.
The beauty of America is astonishing from the air, and always makes me think the Chinese were right when they named America Meiguo, which literally means "beautiful country." They could have just gone with something that sounds close, like Ao-dah-li-ya (Australia) or for something less lovely, like Faguo, "law country," for France. Meiguo is flattering and apt. One early morning flying low over Iowa, I watched a Norman Rockwell painting come to life: a yellow school bus inches down a country road, pauses in front of a big farmhouse surrounded by an emerald-green lawn and white picket fence, then slowly starts up again and mosies along down the road.
Through the mid-Atlantic states are farmers' fields, geometric and marked by different color crops. The mighty Susquehanna is spanned by elegant bridges. Reservoirs are everywhere, and lakes are bordered by forests growing right to the water's edge. Up into New York, West Point sits regally on a bluff, guarding its point over the Hudson.
On a summer weekend day, looking down, all of America seems to be out recreating -- yes, even now, with all the country's obvious economic problems, this is how it looks from above. It's hard to tell how populated are the countless swimming pools, except by the number of cars in their parking lots. In New Jersey, nearly every house in the planned developments has a pool, although by the time we reach Maine, the pools have become fewer and changed from in-ground rectangles to above-ground circles. (If you were a foreigner looking down on America, you would think everyone had a private pool.) Boats leave wakes zigzagging around the lakes. And the air traffic controllers (ATCs) are busy following small planes to all kinds of summer destinations: Cessna to Long Island; King Air to Martha's Vineyard; Mooney to Great Barrington; NetJet and ExecJet pilots with their deep, gravely voices requesting shortcuts to Cape Cod. The ATCs call out warnings to watch for gliders, hot air balloons, aerobatic activity, and jumpers. We see a blimp resting on the ground, full and fat, in a small airport in New Jersey somewhere.
On the way home from Portland, we encountered a little weather. We watched the storms on our Nexrad radar display, and we could see towering dark clouds out the plane windows. We diverted course a few times to fly behind a cell of thunderstorms. The air traffic controllers were particularly busy but always even-keeled, even facing some drama. Helicopter 952SJ Lifeguard, a medical helicopter, called en route to the Westchester Medical Center, requesting advisories. The ATC responded that there was a level 6 thunderstorm over the Center, and said that no one was landing there. (The radar echo intensity of level 6 is defined by the FAA as ""extreme" with severe turbulence, lightning, large hail, extensive surface wind gusts...") The pilot asked if the storm might be clearing. The ATC responded that the cell was building.
This kind of repartee is not infrequent and always riveting. I expect the other listeners on the frequency feel the tension I do when hearing such exchanges. I've heard ATCs coolly guiding pilots through fires, emergency landings, any number of traffic alerts for nearby aircraft, warnings that airspace is "hot" with military maneuvering, or suggestions to increase altitude or change heading--now. I tracked Helicopter 952SJ as long as I could, until we crossed south into airspace of another controller at a different frequency.
It is such a privilege to enjoy when air travel is not an endurance test, but an adventure.

This piece first appeared on theatlantic.com here.
(photo from goingslo/Flickr)